Each provider on Tryst is an independent provider who has their own way of running their business. Some use the Tryst messaging system, and others will have a specific contact form, email address or phone number that they use for all enquiries. If the messaging system doesn't appear as an option, check out the contact information on their profile to find out how to reach out.
For the best experience
Many providers on Tryst will include instructions on their profiles for how to structure your enquiry. Reading and following these guidelines will ensure a positive experience for both you and the provider and avoid misunderstandings. If providers have a website link, reading through their website may also answer any questions or provide more context.
Using the messaging system
When you're logged into Tryst, you can click the Message Me button on a providers profile to send them a message using Tryst. Any providers you are messaging with will appear in your Messages section, which you can access from the top menu bar.
You can use the messaging system to work out a suitable arrangement with the provider, see a list of the providers you are in contact with, and arrange online or offline meets. Make sure you follow any instructions the provider has included on their profile and always be respectful.
When a provider replies, we'll send you an email to let you know. For your privacy, that email will not contain the text of the reply, but it'll make sure you never miss a reply because you aren't actively checking Tryst.
Using social or other links
When viewing a provider's profile, their contact options are available at the bottom of the page. Some options may be obscured, and you will need to click Show next to them to make them visible.Â
Make sure you pay attention to any instructions or requests the provider has made in their contact section when contacting providers using any of this information.
We know that a blank email screen can be intimidating! When you click on a provider's email address, we will pre-populate the email with a short template you can adjust to let the provider know what you are seeking. Feel free to delete this template if you don't want to use it. It looks like this:
Hey {Providers Name}, I'm ____ and I'd like to see you on ____ for ___ hours.